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1. Ultimate Gay Sex
2. The Joy of Gay Sex: Fully revised
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3. Leathersex: A Guide for the Curious
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4. The Family Jewels: A Guide to
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5. The Leatherman's Handbook: Silver
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6. The Ultimate Guide to Strap-On
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7. Gay Sex: A Manual for Men Who
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8. Sexual Conduct (Social Problems
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9. The Ins and Outs of Gay Sex
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10. Leatherman's Handbook II: The
11. Men Loving Men: A Gay Sex Guide
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12. Sex Adviser: The 100 Most Asked
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13. 101 Gay Sex Secrets Revealed
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14. How to Get Laid: The Gay Man's
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15. Sex Workers As Virtual Boyfriends
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16. The Kiss of the Whip: Explorations
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17. Sexual Fulfillment: For Single
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19. The Gay Kama Sutra
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1. Ultimate Gay Sex
by DK ADULT
Hardcover (19 April, 2004)
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Sales Rank: 21162
Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars
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3-0 out of 5 stars Truly ONLY For Beginners
I was extremely disappointed when I purchased this title.While the book is indeed full of wonderful full-color photographs, the actual information in the book is useful only those who really need an introduction to gay life.Otherwise, the sex portion of this book, especially, has absolutely nothing in it that two teen boys with a tiny spark of imagination couldn't come up with.I would not recommend this book to anyone who has ever had sexbefore, since you've probably done everything that Ford discusses.

5-0 out of 5 stars Informative, light and recommended!
This is one of the 2 books which are very good compared to the rest. I like Ford's light, informative and slightly humoristic style of writing. The photos in the book are good quality although an experienced gay may not become very excited. The author himself does not find it necessary to provide great details. However, there is a broad spectrum of information which can be very useful for beginners and gays with limited experience. Overall it is worth being recommended. Additional book which I found very valuable is "Scientifically guaranteed male multiple orgasms and ultimate sex". I am sure that you will like both of them.

5-0 out of 5 stars Great for introduction!
This book is great!Especially if you're just coming out.It gives you a great introduction to the gay culture, as well as information that would otherwise be akward to talk about.Sure it is the parents job to do that, but sometimes the parents don't even know what to say, especially if you're parents are religious, and do not agree with the gay lifestyle! ... Read more

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2. The Joy of Gay Sex: Fully revised and expanded third edition
by Collins
Hardcover (13 May, 2003)
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3-0 out of 5 stars Whatever!
I don't know about anyone else but I do not know to many gay men that are into animal sex, yes I said animal sex - who in the hell thought it would be okay to put that in a book??An ordinary straight person would pick this book up and see that and deffintly say we are all sex addicts!I do have to give the book a lot credit it covers a lot of ground but some in very little detail and some in great detail.I just think they could of done better!

3-0 out of 5 stars More of a gay book than gay sex book
First of all, this book is not for lesbians (In case you can't tell by the cover). This book does a good job at previewing a diverse collection of topics related, some only mildly related, to gay sex. It covers just about every aspect of gay sex you could think of however, it does not cover them in much depth. If your looking for a book that is going to tell you how to blow your boyfriends mind with a innovative trick under the sheets, this is not the book for you. If does cover a lot of sexual tips and techniques, but just about all of that information you probably already know, or can find online for free. Every now and then there is some new or obscure information that is quite interesting and the section at the back of the book listing gay related websites and book references is handy.
5-0 out of 5 stars A Must read!!! LOTS of info!
I absolutely loved this book! It was chalk-full of clearly presented, mostly objective information. There wasnt preachy like some books can be... It was very objective, gave u the option of assigning ur own opinion... The only preachiness was of things that could be hazardous to your physical/mental health. The authors have a very optimistic attitude toward sex, which is extremely refreshing, and they basically say that if you follow safe sex guidelines and avoid people, places, and situations that might cause unsafe sex, u can lead a satisfying and healthy sex life.Read more

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3. Leathersex: A Guide for the Curious Outsider and the Serious Player
by Daedalus Publishing Company
Paperback (1994)
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5-0 out of 5 stars My #1 recommendation for a gay male leather audience
This was a rich delight to read.Many leatherfolk and leather-curious will appreciate the content, accurately described by the chapter titles:"Getting Started in Leathersex", "Playing with Power and Sex", "Playing with Pain", "Playing with Pleasure", "Playing with Life and Death", "Leather Relationships", "Anatomy, Physiology, and First Aid" and "Leathersex and Spirituality".5-0 out of 5 stars Words for thought in the novice or experienced mind.
It can be difficult to balance between talking down to those who will feel they have a lot of experience in BDSM and tallking over those who are just learning about BDSM.This book does a good job of looking at a wide range of activities and interests, some of them for the first time, so that newbies can feel grounded while advanced kinky folk can mull over the concepts.Even though the book grew out of Bean's own journey toward becoming a master, I think the book can speak to anyone regardless of vanilla sexual orientation.However the book often reads more like it is geared toward the bottom or submissive partner in a relationship.

5-0 out of 5 stars an excellent enyclopedia for leathermen of all levels
Joseph Bean does an outstanding job of explaining, demystifying and clarifying many aspects of BDSM. It is from a gay male perspective and would probably not be of tremendous interest to hets or lesbians, but gay& bi/pansexual bio- & transmen should thoroughly enjoy Bean's work,no matter what their level of involvement in BDSM. He covers a wide varietyof topics ranging from leather to bondage, BDSM relationships to findingpartners, play parties to tools, etc. Plus Bean focuses on the importanctof the safe, sane & consensual principles. HIGHLY RECOMMENDED!!! ... Read more

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4. The Family Jewels: A Guide to Male Genital Play and Torment
by Greenery Press (CA)
Paperback (August, 2001)
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Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars
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4-0 out of 5 stars Very helpful
My wife loved the book and has found it very informative.She was not aware that she knew so much through our trial and error methods, but now more errors....just more fun.

5-0 out of 5 stars Mistress enjoyed this book
I Purchased this book for my Mistress.She read it entirely in one sitting!She very much enjoyed the look on my face as she described what she had read.

5-0 out of 5 stars Why Didn't Anyone think of this before?
Let's get all the cliches out of the way first. "The Family Jewels" is a gem. It is precise, finely cut to spec and invaluable. In fact, the first time I laid eyes on it, my first thought was, why didn't anyone think of this before? Read more

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5. The Leatherman's Handbook: Silver Jubilee Edition
by L.T. Publications
Paperback (May, 2000)
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Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars
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5-0 out of 5 stars Why don't you own this?
We have three editions of this essential s/m book. I'm especially fond of the 1972 edition, since Larry signed it "To Laura, my editor" back in 1994. It's a great combination of guidebook and hot leathersex, and while the current editions left out the slang of the day (I'm especially fond of the "groovy sex" in the first edition), the essential bits that give a good look into the 70's leather community makes this a classic.

4-0 out of 5 stars Nice intro, but not a comprehensive guide
I should preface my comments by stating that I am not a Leatherman.I enjoy the leather "costume," but felt a need to learn about what it really symbolizes.It was out of respect for the leather community that I picked up the book, in hopes of educating myself on its practices.
5-0 out of 5 stars When There Was Only One
Back in the seventies, it was still a very risky proposition to attempt a gay publication of any sort. But in the California Seventies, books like "Song Of The Loon" (from the sixties) and eventually the likes of "Tales of The City" began breaking down the barriers, allowing homosexual men to be presented not as crazy or unstable, but as regular people in love. Larry Townsend went even farther out on a limb. He sat down in 1972 and spelled out, for the first time in book form, the codes of conduct that the underground Leather Scene and S&M men lived by. There were also several accounts of steamy real life kink encounters.
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6. The Ultimate Guide to Strap-On Sex: A Complete Resource for Women and Men
by Cleis Press
Paperback (01 July, 2000)
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Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars
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5-0 out of 5 stars Dear me, I think I might be gushing...
I'm a bit of a sex nerd; consequently I read a lot of instruction manuals.Of the ones I've seen, Fairy Butch's The Ultimate Guide To Strap-On Sex was the most useful and eye-opening, not just on the subject of strap-ons, but of sex toys in general, genderplay, lube (includes a section rating 30 or so lubes for texture and taste!), and communication.
4-0 out of 5 stars good guide but could use more drawings
In 13 chapters Karlyn Lotney, otherwise known as Fairy Butch, gives us a good guide on how to use strapons. The focus is on women so there isn't so much really enough about men to call it "the ultimate". While there are some images there need to be more to help those trying to figure how to use them and especially on the positions you can use because a strapon is never in the same position as biological penis. A good book to help someone start out and feel more comfortable. It even includes very rare topics such as clit pumping. "101 Sex Toys" is a better guide to dildos and the equipment but this is a good solid place to start exploring strapons.

4-0 out of 5 stars It's good but not...quite...great
Karlyn Lotney, aka Fairy Butch, has deployed hir extensive experience as a columnist to write this book. I decided to buy the book after spending a weekend reading Fairy Butch archives on http://planetout.com. Sadly, the book didn't go far beyond what I had already read, much of it is reproduced verbatim from hir column. For those of you out there low on cash, I recommend reading hir column archives and forgetting this book. Read more

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7. Gay Sex: A Manual for Men Who Love Men, Second Edition
by Alyson Books
Paperback (01 July, 1998)
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Average Customer Review: 4.0 out of 5 stars
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We live in a world obsessed with (and appalled by) sex. Open any magazine--certainly any gay male magazine--and you will find it clogged with sexualized images. But a fundamental, hardcore American puritanism still prevents open, honest, and useful discussions of sexuality. While this is true for heterosexuality, it is even more so for gay men and lesbians. Jack Hart's Read more

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5-0 out of 5 stars Wonderful Lessons.
As a person recently out of the closet, I found this book extremely helpful and frank.It is full with wonderful and explicit illustrations.It answered all my questions and doubts.I feel much more prepared for the lifestyle I've chosen.

2-0 out of 5 stars Its a dictionary
This book i guess is a manual... but i would discribe it more as a dictionary. It summariz'z a word like testicals in one sentance and then talks about it in a few paragraphs. In my opinion Ultimate Gay Sex is a lot better than this book. Plus UGS has actuall photography to help get a better ideas, this book has some hand drawn pictures. Hope this helps.

4-0 out of 5 stars Happy Day !
Before reading this book, I thought my embarrasing problem would not go away. Then I tried a technique described and ended up having the best night of sex in the world. Not all information in the book will be useful to everyone, but it is definately worth looking at. ... Read more

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8. Sexual Conduct (Social Problems and Social Issues)
by Aldine Transaction
Hardcover (21 July, 2005)
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9. The Ins and Outs of Gay Sex
Paperback (18 May, 1999)
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Average Customer Review: 4.5 out of 5 stars
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5-0 out of 5 stars Ignorance is bliss, but knowledge is power.
Yes this book makes us confront our own rationilaztions and justifactions for not engaging in safe sex, or engaging in promiscious sex with strangers. The facts are facts, regardless of what you want to believe, and Dr. Goldstone lays all the cards on the table and lets y ou make the decisions from there. He is a gay doctor, so these same issues which he talks about are physical conditions that he himself has to avoid inh is own personal life. I bought this book for my own edification and plan on donating it to my Universitiy's GLBT student services library so others can have insight into the heatlth risks associated with gay sex. The book made me take my own sexual practices into perspective, both past and future, and allowed me to make more intellgient decisions on how to proceed. He make sit very clear that HIV/AIDS is not the only STD out there that can have a very damaging effect, and he also discusses many other health issues and illnesses that can affect men. He also discusses sex, and how to use lubricants and condoms and how to position yourself for penetration, so this is a great device for the inexperienced young men trying their sexuality out for the first time. Dr. Goldstone is 100% pro gay, he is gay himself, but that does not mean we can deny the truth of our biological bodies and the physical conditions that can come upon them. Read this book with a grain of salt, and use it to better protect yourself, thats what it's intention is for. He also adds vignettes to the chapters previous to you reading them to give you a perspective of where he is coming from, and also has a great sense of humor, although it is a bit corny. I wish more MDs would realize we need some humor in order to rest our minds during a physical examination. He also makes it very clear that you should be completely upfront with your physician about being gay and the sexual acts you perform, otherwise most straight physicians in particular could easily over look your symptoms as being something else entirely.

5-0 out of 5 stars Excelent lessons!!
As a recently out of the closet person I was full of questions and doubts about gay sex.This book truly gave me all the answers I needed.This society is so concerned with AIDS that we forget about other sexually transmitted deseases.This book not only provides illustrations of all posible deseases out there but it also provides valuable information as to how to spot these ailments, their symptons and posible cures and treatments.I truly feel more prepare.

5-0 out of 5 stars Informative and fun
All things considered, I expected this to be a somewhat dull read, a little too technical because it was penned by an MD.I couldn't have been more wrong.Not only is this book very informative and up to date, but it's written in a hugely entertaining and, yes, erotic, style.Sex manuals are very helpful when you have a date, but sometimes they can also be good company on those lonely nights when you don't have a man.This book is one of the best gay sex manauls available. ... Read more

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10. Leatherman's Handbook II: The Sequel
by L T Pubns
Paperback (October, 2000)
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5-0 out of 5 stars Revising a Classic for The Better
I don't know if Larry Townsend ever had an inkling of just how influential his 1972 original "The Leatherman's Handbook" would become. I am certain he probably had no idea that - within a decade - the mantra of Gay Liberation would become fogged over by the onset of the plague of AIDS and the total indifference of the Reagan Administration. Leathermen, with their work hard play harder sexual ethic, were hit especially hard.
5-0 out of 5 stars Even better than the original!
An excellent "how to" manual for the sexually dominant man.Gay or straight, it makes no difference, the attitude and techniques described in this book cut to the essence of what makes sex worthwhile: power and control.Clearly written, with lengthy sexual anecdotes, it is as sexually charged a book as was ever written. ... Read more

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11. Men Loving Men: A Gay Sex Guide
by Gay Sunshine Press
Paperback (October, 1977)
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5-0 out of 5 stars Just Opened The Packet
I just received my copy - I like it ! I like the interracial photos, and I like the simple style. No great revelations in this book....could there be?1-0 out of 5 stars don't waste your money on this "book"
As pre-Algebra is to Calculus, this book is to sex and gay relationships.Further, it is poorly written, both stylistically and grammatically.The author needs a decent editor.

5-0 out of 5 stars The best
This book remains the best book on gay male sexuality that has been written.It views sex in a holistic manner as part of an individuals whole self rather than as merely a mechanical activity to be approached like plumbing.The chapters are concise and get right to the point without making sex appear to be rocket science.The cute drawings from the original edition remain but as a previous reviewer suspected, the photos have all been redone to fit the current popular gay media image (ie: early twentysomething twinks)....Mitch Walkers book is brilliant. ... Read more

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12. Sex Adviser: The 100 Most Asked Questions About Sex Between Men
by Alyson Books
Paperback (01 January, 1998)
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5-0 out of 5 stars Everything you ever wanted to ask, and more....
Totally fun.Lots of questions one might ask, and still more that will surprise and confound.The responses are cogent and helpful.For the beginner, this a good guide...for the veteran, this is a fun tour of your past, and perhaps your present, as well as future.

5-0 out of 5 stars If You Can Think of It, Palermo Can Answer It
"If you can think of it, nationally-known sex columnist Tony Palermo can answer it, and he does so with style in this collection of the 100 most frequently asked questions about gay sex. Often humorous, always respectful, and never condescending, Sex Adviser answers serious questions about STD prevention, troubling questions about fidelity, and technical questions about what goes where. Issues are tackled with care, thorough research, and common sense. Sex Adviser is the perfect book for any man with questions about sex between men."--� zebraz

4-0 out of 5 stars VERY INFORMATIVE...ButNot Everything
I have been openly homosexual for about the past year (except to my parents!) and this past year has been a real eye opener as far as what the gay community is all about.Read more

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13. 101 Gay Sex Secrets Revealed
by Alyson Books
Paperback (01 May, 2004)
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14. How to Get Laid: The Gay Man's Essential Guide to Hot Sex
by Alyson Books
Paperback (01 March, 2005)
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Average Customer Review: 3.5 out of 5 stars
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4-0 out of 5 stars Very Helpful
I guess I could be described as a "newby" a relatively attractive guy who could use some helpful hints when it comes to hooking up. I got some useful tips regarding confidence, posture and pickup lines. I recommend this book for all gay men looking to score a little more than they are right now. In the advertisement , it said the book would give tips on how to make the other guys he's checking look bad. Unless I'm blind, there was nothing in the book about that. So for that reason I only gave it 4 stars

2-0 out of 5 stars Not helpful
I found most of the advice in this book to be overly obvious and not very useful. Like where to go to meet guys--bars, saunas, gyms, gourmet food stores--duh! Tell me something I haven't already thought of, and tell me some lines that are really funny and not over the top stuff like, "Where can I find the freshest meat?" Who in the world really says that? I felt like the author treated the whole business of cruising and meeting guys to be a big joke, not the fine art that it is, and something that we really need to work on. Also, some of the stuff in there was just wrong--like "foreplay is for girls!" What??? I don't know what planet this guy is from, but foreplay, anticipation, andattraction are the hottest parts of chemistry that two males can share. If you want real advice on this, I think you're better off looking in the straight aisle, i.e. Double Your Dating by David deAngelo (a downloadable e-book). I've picked up some great tips there and have used them on boys.

5-0 out of 5 stars Good advice indeed!
Where does a shy guy go to answer questions about how to meet other guys? I don't know about you but for this reader "How to get Laid" was just the answer. Thank you Mr. Bass for your useful hints and guidelines for those of us who aren't a Greek god amongst our homo brothers. Come to think of it, even you super hotties can probably learn a thing or two from this book. It's funny and frank and always informative. "How to get Laid" has helped me understand many things about confidence, personal grooming and even etiquette rules when cruising some where other than just your local gay bar. Love the illustrations too!
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15. Sex Workers As Virtual Boyfriends
by Harrington Park Press
Paperback (June, 2002)
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Average Customer Review: 4.0 out of 5 stars
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3-0 out of 5 stars Not a how-to
Given the back of the book, it is easy to assume this a how-to book, another guide for the customer from Itiel.But this is really more of an autobiographical account of his own lifestyle choice to focus on the use of hustlers or male prostitutes.A solid definition of "virtual boyfriend" isn't even offered and the "how-to" parts are very few and far between.If you read his first book and thought he was an interesting man, you might like this.If you want to know how to get a virtual boyfriend, you mostly need to figure that out for yourself.

5-0 out of 5 stars a sex worker's point of view
As a former sex worker, I want to praise the author of "Sex Workers as Virtual Boyfriends" for his insightfulness into hustlers' lives.For two difficult years I put myself through college as a parking valet.The work was hard, the pay miserable, and I breathed in a lot of polluted air.Then I started escorting.The job was easy for the most part, the pay excellent, and my health was not in jeopardy.Like the author says, a few clients did also become good friends....Of course, it is older dudes paying for the services of the younger guys.They get paid *because* they are younger and nobody is being exploited.We, young escorts know exactly what we are doing, and the older clients spend their money to fulfill their needs.I highly recommend the book to anyone who wants to understand the life of sex workers.

1-0 out of 5 stars Unpleasant at best
It is astonishing to me that this book was published at all.Much less by a scholarly small press.In Mr Itiel's defence it must be acknowledged that his writings will be of some value as source material for students of gay men and class dynamics.What makes this volume as revealing as it is disturbing are the insights offered unwittingly.Mr Itiel exhibits boundless pride in confiding his expert technique for scoring more sex for less dollars.In one memorable entry he shares tips on how best to train boys not to expect gifts - blithefully unconscious of any parallel to guidebooks on training spaniels.Almost in the same breath he asks we take special note that some of his rent boys grow into friends of a sort - even `virtual boyfriends'.He urges us to follow his example. Read more

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16. The Kiss of the Whip: Explorations in Sm
by Leyland Publications
Paperback (November, 1994)
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Sales Rank: 749366
Average Customer Review: 5.0 out of 5 stars
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5-0 out of 5 stars Excellent non-fiction SM
This is a very well written, interesting, and informative book about SM.The author is extremely articulate and discusses SM philosophy in addition to providing useful how-to information and history.There are also beautiful passages by various SM practitioners describing their experiences.I've read many SM books, fiction and nonfiction, and this is definitely one of the best.Note:This books is written from the point of view of a gay male; if that's a problem for you look elsewhere (although, too bad for you - this book is great). ... Read more

Subjects:  1. Human Sexuality    2. Love / Sex / Marriage    3. Psychology    4. Sadomasochism    5. Sex instruction for gay men    6. Modern fiction   


17. Sexual Fulfillment: For Single and Married, Straight and Gay, Young and Old
by Augsburg Fortress Publishers
Paperback (February, 2001)
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Isbn: 0806640472
Sales Rank: 725639
Average Customer Review: 3.0 out of 5 stars
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1-0 out of 5 stars Neither helpful or Biblical
This book takes tolerance to the point of ridiculous. Two former bishops in the Lutheran church--who therefore should have a strong sense of responsibility as teachers--Chilstrom and Erdahl claim to put forth a middle ground in this book on sexuality. Instead, they ultimately end up suggesting a life style that is hard to distinguish from "If it feels good, do it."5-0 out of 5 stars Solid Coherent Eposition of Christian faith and Human Sexual
Walks a fine path between conservative traditionalism and permissivism, Chilstrom and Erdahl's work offers practical Christian hope between the extremes.

1-0 out of 5 stars Opinion over Principle
Herbert Chilstrom and Lowell Erdahl make use of the fact that they have been pastors and officials in the Evangelical Lutheran Church of America to validate their book.The fact is that their book is neither evangelical nor Lutheran nor in keeping with the teachings of the church.Therefore they should in fairness have refrained from bolstering their opinions with references to their service in the church.The members of their church have every right to resent this.Read more

Subjects:  1. Christianity - Christian Life - Interpersonal Relationships    2. Ethics    3. Human Sexuality    4. Love & Romance    5. Religion    6. Religion - Christian Life    7. Religion - Christian Living    8. Religious aspects    9. Sex    10. Sex instruction    11. Sexual Ethics    12. Sexuality    13. Christian social thought & activity    14. Marriage, family & other relationships    15. Sex & sexuality   


18. Sex Parties 101
by Alyson Books
Paperback (01 June, 2005)
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Isbn: 1555838677
Sales Rank: 693740
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Subjects:  1. Cooking / Wine    2. Entertaining - General    3. Gay Studies    4. Gay men    5. Gender Studies    6. Group sex    7. Human Sexuality    8. Parties    9. Psychology    10. Sex instruction for gay men    11. Sexual behavior    12. Psychology & Psychiatry / Human Sexuality    13. Sex & sexuality   


19. The Gay Kama Sutra
by Thomas Dunne Books
Hardcover (September, 1997)
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Isbn: 0312167539
Average Customer Review: 3.5 out of 5 stars
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4-0 out of 5 stars Just Call Me Pretzel Man!
After going through the various stretching, pubic conditioning, and sexual endurance excercises described in this book, my boyfriend could not beleive the positions I was able to accomplish!This book is fabulous!This bookwas the key I needed to unlock my latent sexual powers, and it was also thespark needed to ignite Raul's and my sexual relationship.I came out ofthe closet only a short time ago, and "The Gay Kama Sutra," withit's soothing and confident tone, gave me the courage I needed to enjoy mylifestyle and its fiery sexuality.Although this book did have a pletheraof pleasing positions (my, what an alliteration!), it was a bit lacking inthe "Advanced" category.But if you are enticed by positionalnames such as the "Shanghai Clam" and the "ReverseButterfly," I strongly encourage you to purchase this book.

2-0 out of 5 stars Not what I expected.
I got this book hoping to spark my boyfriend's and my imagination. However, this book offers no advice. It tells you basically everything you alredy know or will know as soon as you've been out for a year or two. Thepositions that they display could be imagined by any 14 year-old boy with ahormone surge. The advice on relationships and how to maintain them isgood, but any guy with enough common sense to effectly and successfulysolve his relationship problems without the aid of Jerry Springer will notbenefit from this book.

3-0 out of 5 stars Be reminded how to MAKE LOVE not just HAVE SEX
This illustrated book reminds us how to really enjoy all the sensual pleasures of sex with another man.For anyone who has found himself in a rut of "quickies," this may inspire you to create more fulfillingsexual experiences. ... Read more

Subjects:  1. Gay Studies    2. Gay men    3. Homosexuality, Male    4. Love / Sex / Marriage    5. Sex education    6. Sex instruction for gay men    7. Sexual Instruction    8. Sexual behavior    9. Social Science    10. Sociology   


20. Men Are Pigs, but We Love Bacon: Not-So-Straight Answers from America's Most Outrageous Gay Sex Columnist
by Kensington Publishing Corporation
Paperback (April, 2003)
list price: $15.00 -- our price: $10.20
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Isbn: 0758202857
Sales Rank: 608581
Average Customer Review: 4.0 out of 5 stars
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5-0 out of 5 stars Straight Women Love This Book
While reading "How to Get a Six-Figure Cash Advance," by Susan Harrow, I came across a one-page example of pitch letter on "Men Are Pigs, But We Love Bacon."
1-0 out of 5 stars Much To Do About Virtually Nothing.
Mildly entertaining....modestly informative...mostly silly....more often inane.Save your money!

4-0 out of 5 stars Going Hog Wild in Bed
This book is too crude for words.I was genuinely shocked by some of the language.But that aside, you can't help but laugh at Alvear's observations of the male psyche.I like the formatting of the book:Questions are bolded; answers are not, making it easier on the eyes.Also, the questions and answers average about 400 words, making it easy on the brain.Read more

Subjects:  1. Gay Studies    2. Gay men    3. Gay/Lesbian Nonfiction    4. General    5. Health and hygiene    6. Love / Sex / Marriage    7. Mental health    8. Reference    9. Sex instruction for gay men    10. Sexual Instruction    11. Sexual behavior    12. Sexuality   


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